I am an Australian living on the other side of world from home, in the rugged Languedoc region. How did I get here? I married (or rather eloped… it’s a long story) a French winemaker and we have been living here for altogether nearly ten years.
It is an incredibly beautiful region but also rustic and untouched – ‘dans son jus’, as the French would say. Nearly all of the locals are connected to grape-growing and wine-making in some way, which is also why we left Adelaide, Australia for here. It was crazy at first, arriving and not speaking the language, it felt as though someone had cut my tongue out. My days passed in a cloud of fear, ignorance, low self-confidence and bouts of powerful homesickness. But after a few years I began to feel ‘at home’ with my French slowly improving and the first cracking of jokes with scary in-laws at the table!
It’s a challenge, with my misunderstandings and cultural faux-pas, but what has always kept me ticking along was the amazing geography of this region and the discovery of a whole new culture drenched in food and wine and eccentricities (I am living with a Frenchman). The fact that I’m considered less of an alien than before also improves my day… Working in wine and with our child in the village school, we’re finally forging our place in the local community and it’s a good feeling.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m still stumbling through the days trying to master a foreign language, traditions, wine tasting (and moderation of…), road rules, social rules and French cuisine. The difference is now I feel ‘chez moi’ and for now I can’t imagine living anywhere else.
Though I wonder if I’ll ever get my head around the ways of a French husband…